家長讓學生抓狂 Parents Drive Students Crazy

　　It is said that Chinese parents are the world’s most responsible parents, it sounds like the praise to Chinese parents, but thinking further, sometimes it can be an irony. Parents keep their eyes watching their kids all the time, they almost drive the kids crazy.

　　據說中國的家長是世界上最負責的家長，這聽起來就像是對中國家長的一種贊美，但是進一步思考，有時候這也是一種譏諷。家長時刻關注著他們的孩子，幾乎讓孩子抓狂。

　　Li Ming is a college student from a law school, he just seems to can’t get loose from his mother. He was about to take a spring trip with his classmates, while his mother showed up for a visit. Li said he couldn’t leave his mother alone that she would keep watching him. College life is supposed to be a season removed from parental nagging. But students like Li Ming, can’t convince their parents to give them some space. As for Li’s mother, he said he knew she loved him, but he wishes she would treat him like an adult, rather than like a primary school kid. Chinese parents care too much about their kids, some will call them everyday, just to make sure the children are safe, but too many interference will drive the students crazy, they have grown up, they need private space.

　　李明是一名來自法律學校的大學生，他似乎不能從他的`媽媽那里松懈一刻。他準備和他的同學去春游，然而他的媽媽卻來看望他。李說他不能丟下媽媽，她也會時刻看著他。大學生活應該是離開父母看護的時刻。但是像李明這樣的大學生，不能說服父母來給他們一些空間。對于李明的媽媽，他知道她愛他，但是他希望她能把他當做一個成年人，而不是小學生。中國的父母對自己的孩子過度關注，一些人會每天打電話給自己的孩子，以此來確保孩子的安全，但是過度的干涉會讓學生抓狂，他們已經長大，需要私人空間。

　　Parents should be aware that their kids will be an adult, they have to learn to let go gradually.

　　父母應該意識到他們的孩子已經長大成人，他們要慢慢學會放手。