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一句話讓你從欣賞變反感
Have you ever gone from admiration to disgust towards a person in a single conversation?你是否曾經(jīng)因?yàn)橐淮魏?jiǎn)單的對(duì)話而對(duì)某個(gè)人從欣賞到反感？
I was on a text-based roleplaying site, chatting with a friend who seemed depressed. She was quite distraught, and we had been online friends for several months, so I asked her what was wrong.我曾在文字角色扮演網(wǎng)站上和一個(gè)看起來(lái)很消沉的朋友聊天。她非常焦慮，因?yàn)槲覀兂蔀榫W(wǎng)友有幾個(gè)月了，所以我問(wèn)她怎么了。
Her: Oh Maxi, I'm so sad. This is the one year anniversary of the death of my beloved. He was my everything.她：哦，馬克西，我很難過(guò)。今天是我的摯愛(ài)去世一周年的日子。他是我的一切。
Me: Oh no! That's so sad! Did you want to talk about it,?我：哦不！那得多傷心！你想談?wù)勥@件事嗎，（她的名字）？
Her: Thanks so much, yes.她：謝謝，我想談?wù)劇?/p>
Me: What was he like?我：他長(zhǎng)什么樣？
Her: He had gorgeous blonde hair with dark streaks, he was lean and strong, and he had such a twinkle in his eyes. He and I really shared a special bond.她：他有一頭漂亮的金發(fā)，帶點(diǎn)深色紋路，有點(diǎn)瘦，不過(guò)還是挺壯的，而且他的有一雙明亮的眼睛。我們之間羈絆很深。
Me: He sounds wonderful. :) What a lucky lady you are to have known him.我：聽(tīng)起來(lái)他是個(gè)很棒的人。:)你真是個(gè)幸運(yùn)的女生，能夠認(rèn)識(shí)他。
Her: I know! He was so beautiful. Our love was so pure and we made such beautiful sex together. 她：我明白！他長(zhǎng)這么好看。我們的愛(ài)情是如此純潔而且我們之間的愛(ài)愛(ài)如此美妙。
Me: Wow! He sounds like a really special guy! 我：哇哦！聽(tīng)起來(lái)他真的是很特別！
Her: I especially loved the way he wagged his tail at me every time I came home from work.她：我尤其喜歡每次下班回家時(shí)他朝我搖尾巴的樣子。
I clarified that she meant an actual canine and that she stuck his dingdong up her… oh you know what I mean! And yes, she did.我這才明白她指的是一只真的狗而且她把狗的那啥用來(lái)······呃你懂我指的是什么！對(duì)，她確實(shí)這么做了。
When I told her this topic was making me uncomfortable, she yelled at me that for a bisexual person, I sure had a closed mind and I'm no different than those bigots who hated on gay, lesbian, and bisexual people! I stopped talking to the woman. :P當(dāng)我告訴她這個(gè)話題讓我很不舒服，她朝我大喊說(shuō)，作為一個(gè)雙性戀者我的心胸太過(guò)狹隘，我和那些討厭基佬、蕾絲以及雙性戀者的頑固者沒(méi)有區(qū)別！我再也沒(méi)和這女人說(shuō)過(guò)話了。
Once I went to a former coworker reunion dinner. There I met a guy the first time who was one of my coworkers’ friend.我曾去過(guò)一次之前的同事聚餐。在那里我第一次碰上這么個(gè)人，他是我同事的一個(gè)朋友。
He talked about his life. His mother is a widow. His family could not support him financially. He did great in high school. Village fellows lent him money and eventually he went to the college. He paid back the debt by hard work and later he donated to his home village to help children from poor families like him go to college.他談?wù)摿怂纳睢Ｋ哪赣H是個(gè)寡婦，他的家庭無(wú)法給他經(jīng)濟(jì)上的支持。但是他在高中里成績(jī)非常好，所以同村的人借他錢讓他去讀大學(xué)。他努力工作還了債務(wù)之后，他給他的家鄉(xiāng)捐款，幫助那些窮人家的孩子能像他一樣去上大學(xué)。
I was quite impressed and poured a cup of tea for him.我非常感動(dòng)，還給他倒了一杯茶。
Then he looked at me, “I’m glad you are a traditional woman.”然后他看著我說(shuō)：“我很高興，你是一個(gè)傳統(tǒng)的女人�！�
“?” I looked at him confused.“？”我不解地看著他。
“Nowadays women seldom pour tea for men. They are not obedient any more. Unfortunately many Chinese women abandoned such a traditional virtue. I’m glad you are not one of them, I mean, feminist.”“現(xiàn)在的女人很少給男人倒茶了。她們不再恭順了。很不幸，很多中國(guó)女人已經(jīng)拋棄了這種傳統(tǒng)美德。我很高興你不是那種人，我是指，女權(quán)主義者。”
I looked at him,我看著他，說(shuō)：
“Unfortunately I am.”“很不幸，我就是女權(quán)主義者�！�